Sunday, June 7, 2009

Over and Over and Over

I think most readers have beloved books, books that instantly spell comfort. I have books that I reread frequently, some of which have been favorites for well over 20 years. You would think I would be rather tired of them by now, but apparently my being a creature of utter habit extends entirely into my reading as well.

1. Neither Here Nor There by Bill Bryson
This book has been a great favorite of mine for well over 15 years. My copy is disgracefully dog-eared and is the cause of this list, since my husband noticed me reading it in bed the other night. It was hard not to notice, since I insisted upon reading particularly funny bits out loud to him, while half-choking with laughter.

I'm also snorting with laughter right now, reading some of the Official Reviews on Amazon. The Library Journal mentions that the book is offensive (as we all know, the heights of humour are wholesome and reached in such literary gems as Reader's Digest) and "self-indulgent." HA! It's a TRAVEL MEMOIR, the single most self-indulgent literary genre*! So be warned. Bryson is a crabby, offensive, frequently smutty and self-indulgent author. He is also very, very funny.

* aside from the therapy memoir genre. But you couldn't PAY me to read one of those.

2. Persuasion - Jane Austen
Wherein we may find the single greatest literary letter ever:

"I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are
within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not
that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer
myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke
it, eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman,
that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have
been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant. You alone have
brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan. Have you not seen this? Can
you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days,
could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can
hardly write. I am every instant hearing something which overpowers me. You sink
your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be
lost on others. Too good, too excellent creature! You do us justice, indeed. You
do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men. Believe it to
be most fervent, most undeviating, in

F. W.

"I must go, uncertain of my
fate; but I shall return hither, or follow your party, as soon as possible. A
word, a look, will be enough to decide whether I enter your father's house this
evening or never."



Le sigh.

It's a strangely melancholy book. Whenever I reread it - and that has been at least once a year since I was 15 or so - I am left with a profound sadness despite the happy ending.

3. The Magician's Nephew - C. S. Lewis
I'm not saying that this is the best of the Narnia books, but it is my favorite. Polly's pirate cave in the attic! Horrible Uncle Andrew! Digory crying in the garden and the apple he brings to his dying mother! The room of the Kings and Queens of Charn! The creation of Narnia! Good stuff.

4. The Collected Stories of Colette
I bought my battered copy at a second hand book store when I was 17. It's been toted everywhere with me ever since, and brings with it a strange, lost world - artists in France in the 20s, starving Parisian theatre folk, and the desperation of WWI. It's also terribly sophisticated and worldly in a way that I was starving for when I was young and find rather amusing now, and a wonderful summery read.

5. If You Want To Write - Brenda Ueland
I don't remember how or when this book happened into my hands, but it has been a tremendous blessing and comfort over the years. I've loaned it to literally dozens of people, too. It's a life-enhancing meditation on the utter importance of writing what is true and what is real, and it is a joy.

6. Rebecca - Daphne du Maurier
I first read this book when I was 9 or so and MUCH too young to have any idea what was going on. SOMETHING was, I was certain. And now I know! Growing up has its deep pleasures.

So. What books are your favorites, your comfort books?

44 comments:

Nicole said...

My comfort books:
Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, The Blind Assassin, A Year in Provence (YUM), Diary of a Provincial Lady (if you haven't read this, it is wholly hilarious and witty), Lives of Girls and Women, To Kill a Mockingbird, and I also like to revisit my two childhood favourites: Little Women and A Little Princess. When I read that last as a child, I had no idea about colonial India or anything, but I find it very intriguing as an adult, if that makes sense.

midabry said...

"Forever Amber" by Kathleen Winsor. I have read this book every year since I was 15. I buy every old copy I find.... a much better read in the old book!

Omaha Mama said...

Must read Persuasion this summer. You've inspired me to even more now. I have a confession to make: I've never read a single Jane Austen novel! Gasp, go ahead. I love every single movie and have still never read any of the books. So this summer I'll make a go of it. Is Persuasion a good place to start?

Heather said...

Ooooo, someone else who loves Persuasion. And that letter gives me absolute chills (I also own the older version of it in movie form which is brilliant and which I rewatched over and over while pregnant.) I used to reread the Lord of the Rings books over and over, accompanied by Tolkien's letters, and then the movies came out and I can't stand large portions of them and ruined them for me. The Emily of New Moon books by LM Montgomery--much better and more meloncholy than Anne of Green Gables is a favorite of mine. And for cheesy fantasty fiction I turn to The Enchanted Forest series (Searching for Dragons etc.)which I read and reread happily (I have an odd thing for dragons). E. Nesbit would be my favorite rereadable children's writer. Saavy is my recent favorite reread. Oh and the Percy Jackson and the Olympians series. An old favorite reread in Mary Stewart's Thornyhold, also Rose Cottage, though I prefer Thornyhold. Little Women was a favorite reread though I prefer Rose in Bloom but both lost somethign when I read about Louisa May Alcott's attitude about her own books and how she really preferred writing pulp fiction style books.

painted maypole said...

well, now i have more books to read.

i don't tend to go back to books over and over, as I prefer to read something new. the harry potter books may be the only ones I keep going back to. When I do go back, such as to One Hundred Years of Solitude, I often find they don't hold the same sway over me the second time. Which is why i give my favorite books away to friends. "You must read this!"

except plays. Oh, i have plays I return to again and again, most notably Angels in America. there are several, though, that have been calling my name again recently, and I may do some play reading this summer.

a Tonggu Momma said...

Definitely Pride and Prejudice. And also Wild Swans by Jung Chang. For some reason, I seem to return to that book year after year.

Nicole said...

Heather! I forgot about Rose in Bloom. I loved that book, and will have to pick it up again (although, it is a bit strange with the whole "cousins marrying" thing)

SuburbanCorrespondent said...

Pride and Prejudice

To Kill A Mockingbird

A Tree Grows In Brooklyn (I am confident that you would love this one, if you have not yet read it)

Little Women (yes, I know, it's moralistic and sappy; but I love it anyway)

The Winds of War
War and Remembrance

A Little Princess - who can resist that scene when her miserable garret room is transformed by a mysterious benefactor?

Sue said...

For comfort, anything by Georgette Heyer or Rosamunde Pilcher, with a little bit of Emily Dickinson thrown in for good measure.

Books from my childhood provide comfort, too. Little Women, for instance. Anne of Green Gables. The Secret Garden. Little House on the Prairie. Island of the Blue Dolphins. The Moonspinners.

And, of course, Winken, Blinken and Nod (coincidentally featured on my blog today...)

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Books are the best thing ever! And I just got a kindle, which I am having LOTS of fun with.

=)

flutter said...

I have read The Time Traveler's Wife about a million times and everything that Alice Sebold has written

minnesotamom said...

You may laugh at these.

"Matilda" by Roald Dahl
"Passion and Purity" by Elisabeth Elliott
"Baby Island" by Carol Ryrie Brink (?)
"Power from on High" by Charles Finney

Also, several series...Trixie Belden, The Bobbsey Twins, Little House, etc. Series were greatly encouraged in my youth, though I don't know if they ALL will be for my own children. :)

Elouise82 said...

"Gaudy Night," by Dorothy L Sayers. Actually, any of the Lord Peter mysteries. (I even took "Murder Must Advertise" with me to the birthing center so I'd have something to read during that first sleepless night with the new baby!) "The Blue Castle," by LM Montgomery is another favorite, as is "Emily of Deep Valley" by Maud Hart Lovelace. (She wrote the Betsy-Tacy series, which are also perfectly delightful.) There are plenty more, but the baby is crying so I must run!

Allie said...

I think I will have to read the other books on your list, because like you, Persuasion and The Magician's Nephew are particular re-readable favourites of mine. I 100% agree with you about that letter.

Yamile said...

I love Persuasion too, and Love and Prejudice. I re-read some parts over and over. Also Harry Potter 6 and 7. I even keep the audio CDs on the kitchen counter permanently so I can listen to them whenever the house is a little quiet. I still laugh and cry over the same passages; I just love the words on those books.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho, and a new favorite that I read a couple of months ago for the first time, and I'm re-reading just because it's so wonderful: Daughter of the Forest, from the Sevenwaters Trilogy by Juliet Marillier. How I love this re-telling of the fairy tale the Six Wild Swans!
Also Twilight, especially the first and third. Oh my gosh!!! Swoon...

Mrs. B. Roth said...

I've never read Austin ... but I think fate is thrusting her on my path this summer.

I go for Edgar Allen Poe, Robert Service, Robert Heinlein, and Orson Scott Card.

I feel like the ugly duckling in the list ...

Now that I have a daughter, I know Anne of Green Gables will come back, Little House, Beverly Clearly, and Judy Blume. I can hardly wait.

erin k said...

*About a Boy.
*The Phantom Tollbooth.
*The Blue Castle (or at least it would be, if I owned a copy...)
*Jane, Stewardess of the Airlines (everyone should read this book. Too much fun!)

I'm sure there's more, but I can't think of them...

Kim from Hiraeth said...

Loved Rebecca. Have you ever listened to it on tape? Great reader.

My favorite comfort books are:

The Lord of the Rings
Harry Potter
The Thorn Birds
but most of all
LES MIS!!!

Gretchen said...

Death Comes for the Archbishop by Willa Cather. It's stark, simple, and sounds really boring to anyone reading the back cover or Amazon description, but I love it, love it, love it.

happygeek said...

I have tried and tried, I cannot read Austen.
She makes me want to hurl myself out the nearest window.
But I've tried.
Currently all the books I read over and over are slim library books with a Z designation.
Would you, could you on a boat?
Would you could you with a goat?
However, i re-read anything by L.M. Montgomery most Jeffery Archer and now I have this need to go take out an Atwood from the library again. Especially Alias Grace. While her stories may be disturbing, the woman can write.
And now that I've confessed my insanely plebeian tastes, I'm going to try your Bryson book and expand my horizons a bit.

Rachel said...

I came to Austen late in life -- after high school -- and the first time I read *Persuasion* I was in bed with my husband, who was looking at a magazine. I got to that letter at the end and had to explain to him why I was suddenly gasping and putting my hand over my mouth and sighing and just generally acting like a fifteen-year-old whose crush just told her she looked nice today. I wish I could forget about it so I could read it again for the first time. SIGH.

My list of comfort reads is way, way long. I'll reread any book if I love it, and I love a lot of books. For actual comfort reading, though, it has to be simultaneously engaging, lighthearted, and not-overly-cerebral... which is still, let's face it, a lot of books.

Sue said...

I can read anything Jane Austen over and over again, and I'll ditto A Little Princess and Anne and the Narnia books - simple pleasures, I guess. I find myself happily re-reading so many books from childhood that I've picked up for my seven year old, like Edward Eager's Half Magic and Seven Day Magic. I think I've read The Importance of Being Earnest at least twenty times, and it still makes me chuckle.

It's funny what works for me as a comforting re-read and what doesn't - I can pick up any Dave Barry book on my shelf and be amused, but I don't like re-reading Augusten Burroughs or David Sedaris, even though I enjoy a lot of their books. I like re-reading Carolyn Parkhurst books like The Dogs of Babel and Lost and Found - maybe because she's sometimes melancholy but not dark, and the books end on a comforting note. When I want something engrossing but junky, I might pick up The Runaway Jury or some other Grisham paperback, and I can open Gone With The Wind to almost any page and be instantly engrossed.

Heather said...

Wow. I don't think I've ever read any of those.

I love Circle of Friends by Maeve Binchy. Several of LaVeryle Spencer's book even if they are fluff. Also a tween book called You Shouldn't Have to Say Goodbye. It stuck with me once I read it as a tween.

No Mother Earth said...

Jane Eyre.
The Blue Castle.
A Girl of the Limberlost. (I think you would like this if you haven't read it yet.)
Anne of the Island.
Child of the Morning.

Those are my top five. (For the record I read The Lion, The Witch and the Wardrobe about 10 times IN A ROW.)

I think Wicked could make this list, but I just recently read it, so am as yet unsure.

CAQuincy said...

I re-read Jane Austin every year--am re-reading her now. I love them all except Northanger Abbey--and that one I have grown to appreciate (a little) more. Pride and Prejudice is my fav--but Persuasion has crept up to a very, very, VERY close second.

Also:
-The Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy series.
-The Hobbit, LOTR
-All the Anne books
-Jane Eyre
-All the Harry Potters
-Yes, Orson Scott Card for me, too!
-Thorn Birds
-Gone with the Wind (more of an every OTHER year read)
-Diary of a Geisha
-Song of Solomon

And now I have a lovely list of books to TRY! Yes! I've been lacking inspiration in my library visits lately!

Allysha said...

Dandelion Wine by Ray Bradbury
The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane by Kate DiCamillo
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
A Wrinkle in Time by Madeleine L'Engle
A Tree Grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith. Oh my! I love this book.

hmmmm. Me thinks I could go on and on, but I won't.

Sus said...

OH! I forgot about Rebecca! I must return to that. And that letter in Persuasion - Wow. I just recommended that book to my high school aged cousin. It's been so long for me; I am so impressed that you not only read but REread books! You are a Good. Person. Beck.

So, I'm not a re-reader, but my comfort books have to include The Red Tent, and The Poisonwood Bible, A Wrinkle in Time (remember that one?), The Chosen, The Namesake, and Time Traveler's Wife, the author of which I once saw on the L in Chicago. Oh, and Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre. My first taste of that whole era.

And I actually love Austen's Mansfield Park most of all. As you say so rightly: Le Sigh.

Soul-Fusion said...

Both Persuasion and Pride & Prejudice top my list and I do not re-read books very often. And the letter you quoted is my FAVORITE! I believe I even blogged about it - because a movie messed it up I believe.

Hairline Fracture said...

Any of Jane Austen, but especially Pride and Prejudice. The Fountain Overflows by Rebecca West. Any of the Narnia books or the first Anne book. Anything by P.G. Wodehouse. There are probably more I'm not remembering.

I discovered Bryson this year and LOVE his sense of humor.

Reluctant Housewife said...

We like some of the same stuff. I love Bryson but my favourite is A Walk in the Woods. I love Jane Austen, too. I really like Mansfield Park and, of course, Pride and Prejudice. CS Lewis - Magician's Nephew is brilliant I also really like A Horse and His Boy. I love Rebecca - so creepy. I like the Anne of Green Gables books and the Harry Potter books, too. I also like silly books like the shopaholic series. I also tend to reread Meave Binchy books - my mother in law got me hooked on them.

Life As I Know It said...

I don't know that these would qualify as comfort, but I keep going back to them nonetheless:
The Great Gatsby
Breakfast At Tiffany's
Eat Pray Love
The Red Tent
Animal Dreams - Barbara Kingsolver

I KNOW I am forgetting a ton more. And I think I am the only person on the earth who has NOT read any Austen! Will have to remedy that this summer.

Susanne said...

Wow, Beck, I feel like such a literary baby, never having read a one of these.

"Ribbon of Years" by Robin Lee Hatcher is one of my all time favorites I reread alot.

Karen said...

Pride and Prejudice, Jane Eyre, mostly...though you have given me some nice suggestions for summer reading on books I've not enjoyed yet! Thanks!

Barb said...

My comfort books are a tad juvenile I think - I love to reread the entire Little House series every couple of years and All Creatures Great and Small is another favorite.

Mary said...

Happygeek - I'm with you on LM Montgomery. She was a (very) distant relative of mine, so I'm sure that makes it okay.

I'm a big fan of the Count of Monte Cristo (Betrayal! Revenge! Piracy! Romance!), anything by Alexandre Dumas, most Asimov, and the Swallows & Amazons series. If I'm looking for something particularly mindless and satisfying I enjoy pretty much anything by Agatha Christie.

Having a three-month old in the house means I do a lot of reading of things over and over and over. When we aren't reading about animal noises ("A cow says moo, a sheep says baa, three singing pigs say la la la"), busy animals ("Panda strolling, Panda rolling...") and clever babies, we've been known to read various Roald Dahl stories such as "Fantastic Mr Fox" - to my sister's absolute horror.

Krista said...

"these is my words" an all time favorite and made my heart happy.

Mimi said...

I read P+P at least once a year. It's less melancholy than Persuasion ... and I have a strange fondness for Northanger Abbey, actually, because Catherine is such a charming ninny.

Jennifer said...

I loved reading your list. And I love comfort books! I don't re-read often, but these books are well dog-eared:

Persuasion is at the top of my chart, too.

Anything by Agatha Christie. How can English rooms covered in chintz with ladies sipping tea in 1948 NOT be comforting, despite the murders?

Father Brown mysteries. Good for a rainy day, or a cold wintery one. So much ATMOSPHERE, so much CLEVERNESS. And good sense, as well.

And ah, the perfection of Rosamunde Pilcher. There seems to be a theme here: happy books with happy endings; England; and mysteries. :)
Did I mention that I want to LIVE in a Pilcher novel when I grow up??? If I ever get to the Cotswolds in my lifetime they may never get me to leave.

P.S. Have you ever read "Take Joy" by ... Yolen. It's a book on writing that is just lovely, and reminds me of your description of your favorite writing book. A pleasant read.

Jennifer said...

Oh, I just read thru the comments:

Yes, yes, yes!! Willa Cather! Little House books!! Little Women!!! I've read 'em again and again and again...

Eggman said...

For as far back as I can remember, I've been the subject of ridicule in my family for my love of reading books and watching movies over and over. They all can pretty much understand watching a film more than once, which makes sense to me, but for some reason they draw the line at the printed page.

Top of my list: "Almost Paradise" by Susan Isaacs. A number of years after I'd first stumbled upon the book, I found a hardback copy at a flea market. Years after THAT, she was making an appearance at a local bookstore in Charlotte where I lived at the time, and I took the book to have it signed. It was only when I was sitting there waiting for my turn in line that I discovered that my three dollar purchase was, in fact, a first edition. Ms. Isaacs couldn't have been more gracious, and seemed genuinely flattered that I would ask her to personalize a signature in a first edition. (Maybe she thought it would wind up on eBay.)

Second on my list: "Cheaper by the Dozen" by the Galbraiths (the first names of the two authors escape me at the moment). Great book, good movie w/ Myrna Loy and Clifton Webb, awful theft of a title for a Steve Martin fiasco.

Okay, it's a short list, but that's all I have time for now. I have to go watch a movie again.

Magpie said...

Lately, I can't get make a dent in the pile of books I've not yet read (because I add to the pile faster than I finish reading anything), so I haven't REread anything in ages.

FrankandMary said...

The first time I finished reading Rebecca, I immediately read it again.
I have a book to add to your collection: Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealy. I cannot count the number of times I have read it. It is the most striking memoir I've ever devoured.
I came to your blog by way of the Don Mills blog. ~Mary

kittenpie said...

I never reread books - who has time, when there are so many? When I was a child, thouigh, I had a few books I would read every time I was sick enough to stay home from school. Funny books, nothing substantial - I think they were a standin for tv, since we didn't have one.

Barrie said...

If I'm feeling down, a few pages from Angus, Thongs and Full-Frontal Snogging always gets me laughing. Always. Also, I'm pretty much always up for a Nancy Drew. There are more serious books that I like to revisit such as The Edible Woman and Fifth Business. Oh, and Barometer Rising.

Jennifer, Snapshot said...

Hey--we're doing Rebecca for the 5 Minutes for Books bookclub on August 4 (we link up our thoughts and reviews). I'd love for you to join us. That will be my first time to read it.

I don't know if I have comfort books. I've reread the Mitford books more than once of late. I'll have to think on this.